Dr. Ramani Durvasula AOLRC Event Page Banner 2024

Excavating the Light Within You

Healing from Narcissistic Relationships

Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Nov 1–3
Dr. Ramani Durvasula
Nov 1–3
TUITION:
$425
A Structured
3-Day/2-Night Retreat
Nov 1–3
Retreat Type
Family & RelationshipsFamily & Relationships
Featured PresentersFeatured Presenters
Self-DiscoverySelf-Discovery
Retreat Goals
Better RelationshipsBetter Relationships
Calm & Clear MindCalm & Clear Mind
Get HealthyGet Healthy

Reclaim Your Inner Radiance

Celebrate Diwali with a purposeful focus on healing from narcissistic relationships, where the festival’s message of light overcoming darkness mirrors our journey towards reclaiming our inner radiance. This retreat serves as a beacon of hope, reminding us that amidst the triumph of good over evil, healing from narcissistic relationships is not only possible but essential.

Led by Dr. Ramani Durvasula, an esteemed authority in narcissistic relationships, this program blends scholarly expertise with clinical insights, offering participants a roadmap toward reclaiming their true selves. Through psychoeducation, community support, and clarity,  embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

Join us for a transformative experience featuring group discussions, journaling, one-on-one sharing, meditation, and mindfulness exercises. Together, we’ll navigate the complexities of narcissistic relationships, uncovering insights and tools for healing. Breakout sessions with experts provide additional guidance, ensuring every participant finds support tailored to their needs.

Let Diwali be more than just a celebration of lights; let it be a celebration of our resilience and collective journey towards healing from narcissistic relationships.

Recommended (but not required) reading It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing From Narcissistic People, by Dr. Ramani Durvasula.

This retreat is open to everyone.

Program FAQs

Yes. This is not just limited to narcissistic intimate relationships or parental relationships. We will have small group discussions by relationship type.

No, therapy is often essential for people experiencing narcissistic relationships, and this program could be a useful adjunct to existing therapy.

 Given the amount of time and the number of attendees, there will not be an opportunity for any one-on-one sessions, but she welcomes questions throughout the program!

Dr. Ramani is not able to “diagnose” a person in your life with NPD or any personality disorder. We will discuss the patterns and traits that comprise narcissism, but without meeting someone in an evaluation/assessment situation, it is not possible for her to deliver a definitive diagnostic formulation.

Presenter

Dr. Ramani Durvasula 500 x 500 Headshot

Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Ramani Durvasula, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist in California, the founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training and Consulting, and professor emerita of psychology at California State University Los Angeles. She is the New York Times Best-selling Author of It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People.

Reviews

Empowering
L.M.
Read More
Dr. Ramani's compassionate guidance and expert insights have been instrumental in my journey of healing from a narcissistic relationship. Her work empowered me to break free from toxic patterns and rebuild my life with strength and resilience.
Newfound Clarity & Confidence
K.P.D.
Read More
Dr. Durvasula’s clear explanations and practical advice gave me the validation and support I needed to recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse and begin the healing process. With her guidance, I found the courage to prioritize self-care and establish healthy boundaries, enabling me to move forward with newfound clarity and confidence.
Forever Gratfeul
R.B.
Read More
Dr. Ramani's expertise helped me break free from the grip of a narcissistic partner. Her practical strategies and compassionate approach gave me the tools to reclaim my life and rediscover my worth. I'm forever grateful for her guidance.
Previous
Next

Schedule

Excavating the Light Within You

Healing from Narcissistic Relationships
November 1–3, 2024

Subject to change.

Friday 7:30–9:00 pm
Saturday
9:30am–12:30pm, 2:00-4:00pm, 7:00-9:00pm
Sunday 9:30–11:30 am Room checkout is 11:00 am; luggage may be held at Reception.

General Information

All times are Eastern Standard Time (EST) unless otherwise noted.

Arrival Day
4:00 pm Check-in begins; Rooms are ready by 4:00 pm, but if you arrive early we will hold your luggage at Reception.
6:00–7:00 pm Dinner
7:00–7:20 pm Guest Orientation Session (Venue: Dining Hall)

Actual schedules and venues may vary; please confirm with Front Desk upon check-in.

Apart from the activities in your program schedule, we offer the following optional complementary activities. (Please join only if your program schedule permits.)

  • 9:45–10:45 am  Yoga |  Thu–Sun
  • 11:00 am–12:00 pm  Mind & Meditation |  Thu–Sun
  • 1:30–2:15 pm  Guided Hike* | Assemble at Shankara Reception | Sat
  • 2:30–3:45 pm  Ayurveda Cooking Class* | Tulsi Kitchen
    Thu: Sweet Treats • Sat: Chef’s Seasonal Recipe
  • 4:15–5:15 pm Yoga |  Wed–Sat
  • 5:30–6:00 pm  Guided Meditation |  Wed–Sat
  • 7:30–8:15 pm  Meditative Chants/Kirtan |  Wed–Sat
    Saturday kirtan is outdoor by the bonfire; weather permitting.

*Included with Wellness Escapes and R&R; Other participants: $35.00/per person

CLAY STUDIO

Thursday
Wheel-Throwing Classes
11:00 am, 1:15 pm, 3:00 pm
75 minutes; $65

Friday & Saturday
Hand-Building Classes
11:00 am, 12:30 pm, 2:15 pm, 3:30 pm, 4:45 pm, 6:00 pm
60 minutes; $55 

*Class schedules are subject to change; glazing and shipping are included.

Hours

Wednesday 11:00–8:00 pm
Thursday–Saturday 9:00 am–6:00 pm
Sunday 8:00 am–2:00 pm

We encourage you to make reservations for consultations, therapies, and treatments at our award-winning Shankara Ayurveda Wellness at least four weeks before your arrival date to ensure availability. Please call 828.264.8382 for details. Additional cost.

Rooms & Pricing

Private Hotel Room

$416 per person/per night + tax

All options include daily vegetarian meals from dinner on the night of check-in through lunch on the day of checkout. (Rates below are per person.)

 

  • King bed or two full beds
  • Flat screen TV
  • Refrigerator
  • Private bath
  • Hair dryer
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi
  • Daily delicious vegetarian meals
  • Complimentary tea/coffee & fresh fruit
  • Daily yoga & meditation classes
  • Access to fitness & steam rooms

Shared Hotel Room (2 People)

$297 per person/per night + tax
  • Twin beds
  • Flat screen TV
  • Refrigerator
  • Private bath
  • Hair dryer
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi
  • Daily delicious vegetarian meals
  • Complimentary tea/coffee & fresh fruit
  • Daily yoga & meditation classes
  • Access to fitness & steam rooms

Private Retreat Room

$282 per person/per night + tax
  • Twin beds
  • Private bath
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi
  • Daily delicious vegetarian meals
  • Complimentary tea/coffee & fresh fruit
  • Daily yoga & meditation classes
  • Access to fitness & steam rooms

Shared Retreat Room (2 People)

$230 per person/per night + tax
  • Twin beds
  • Private bath
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi
  • Daily delicious vegetarian meals
  • Complimentary tea/coffee & fresh fruit
  • Daily yoga & meditation classes
  • Access to fitness & steam rooms

Shared Retreat Room (3 People)

$201 per person/per night + tax
  • Twin beds
  • Private bath
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi
  • Daily delicious vegetarian meals
  • Complimentary tea/coffee & fresh fruit
  • Daily yoga & meditation classes
  • Access to fitness & steam rooms

FAQs

On-Campus Program FAQs

For room reservations, Ayurveda Wellness Retreats, and Art of Living Retreat Center (AOLRC) signature retreats, we have the following cancellation policy:

  • Refunds are available (less a $50 per person processing fee) up to 15 days before your program or stay.
  • Nonrefundable credit toward a future AOLRC program or stay (less a $50 per person processing fee) is available if you give notice between 14 and one day(s) before your program or stay. Credit may be applied to any AOLRC program or stay for one year following date of issue.
  • No credit or refund is available if you cancel on the arrival day, if you do not show up, or if you leave an event early for any reason. No refund will be available if you attend a program and are dissatisfied with its presentation or content.

AOLRC reserves the right to cancel a program at any time. If AOLRC cancels a program, you will receive a full refund. Some programs may have special cancellation policies; see individual workshop descriptions. For all other retreats, please be sure to check the registration page specific to that retreat.

Unless otherwise indicated, our programs are open to participants 18 years of age and older.

To encourage a healthy environment we ask that guests not consume alcohol or meat in our public spaces, however, guests may enjoy these items in their rooms.

Our property is always smoke-free.

Yes, we ask that guests with food allergies simply inform us so we can communicate those needs to our chef. Typically, we label potential allergens such as gluten, dairy, and nuts.

We do have lodging and event venues that are ADA-compliant. Due to the topography of our mountain campus, some are easier to access than others, so please speak to Guest Services (800.392.6870) prior to registering to ensure we can best accommodate your needs. We also have shuttles that run frequently throughout the campus.

We are committed to the safety of our guests and staff. Our mountaintop location and the surrounding areas are spacious, remote, safe, and secure.

  • It is safe to leave your windows open—and necessary for proper airflow!
  • Nature surrounds our campus, and it’s common to see rabbits, deer, gophers, wild turkeys, and other small animals. Please give them space, and they’ll do the same for you. We’ve never had a safety incident with animals on campus.

You can help!

  • If you come across an animal on campus or a trail, give it space, and please do not attempt to pet or feed it.
  • There’s no need to bring valuables to the retreat center; leaving them at home is best.

Location

639 Whispering Hills Road
Boone, NC 28607
800.392.6870

Discover deep rest and rejuvenation on our tranquil mountaintop campus set amidst 380 acres of pristine forest in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Boone, North Carolina.  

Photo Gallery