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Getting the Love You Want

Helping Couples Connect

Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt

Discover the tools to transform your relationship in a weekend retreat based on the best-selling book, Getting the Love You Want. Led by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., this experience offers couples a safe and nurturing space to rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and heal relational wounds. Using their groundbreaking Imago Relationship Therapy, you’ll learn effective communication skills, foster empathy, and co-create a relationship rooted in appreciation and connection.

Please note: This retreat is for couples only.

Recommended reading: Getting the Love You Want.

June 26–28
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Starting at $395 (Tuition) + $616 (Lodging + Meals) plus tax

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June 26-28, 2026
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Retreat Benefits

Deeper Connection

Experience a profound bond with your partner through enhanced communication and empathy.

Relationship Safety 

Establish a foundation of trust and security with the Zero Negativity Pact.

Empowering Dialogue Skills​

Learn the Imago Dialogue technique to foster understanding and resolve conflicts.

Emotional Healing

Address and heal unresolved childhood and relational wounds.

Intimacy Revival

Reignite the passion, attraction, and connection that first brought you together.

Practical Tools

Walk away with actionable strategies that support continued healing long after the retreat.

What to Expect

Heal, Connect, and Grow Together

This retreat is more than a workshop—it’s a journey toward emotional healing and relational transformation. With the guidance of Harville and Helen, you’ll explore new ways to communicate, embrace conflict as a tool for growth, and rediscover the joy and intimacy that first brought you together. By the end of the weekend, you’ll feel more aligned with your partner, equipped with actionable tools, and inspired to continue nurturing a relationship that thrives.

Please note: This retreat is for couples only.

1. Imago Dialogue Practice​

Engage in guided exercises to master transformational communication techniques.

2. Conflict Resolution Exercises

Learn strategies to navigate and transform challenges into growth opportunities.

3. Reconnection Activities

Participate in practices that rebuild intimacy and reignite your bond.

4. Group Discussions

Share experiences and learn from other couples in a supportive environment.

5. Relationship Blueprint Development

Establish the path for nurturing your partnership beyond the retreat.

Program Schedule

Getting the Love You Want

This experiential retreat offers a well-balanced schedule that combines structured educational sessions with flexible time blocks – ensuring you have ample opportunity to engage in learning while also allowing personal time to explore the retreat center and enjoy moments of reflection and relaxation.
(Program schedule subject to change.)

4:00 pm Check-in Begins

6:00–7:30 pm Light Dinner

7:00–7:20 pm Guest Orientation

7:30–9:o0 pm Session 1

7:30–9:30 am Breakfast

9:00 am–12:00 pm Session 2

12:00–1:30 pm Lunch

2:30–5:00 pm Session 3

5:00–6:00 pm Free Time

6:00–7:30 pm Dinner

7:30–9:30 pm Session 4

7:30–9:30 am Breakfast

9:00 am–12:00 pm Session 5

Room Checkout 11:00 am Luggage may be held at Reception.

12:00–1:30 pm Lunch

Optional Activities
Yoga • Meditation • Kirtan • Bonfire • Labyrinth • Nature Trails

Schedule subject to change.

Meet the Presenter

Harville Hendrix, PhD, and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD

Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., are internationally-respected couple's therapists, educators, speakers, and New York Times bestselling authors. Together, they have written over 10 books with more than 4 million copies sold, including the timeless classic, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples.

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Our Accommodations

Prices include daily vegetarian meals from dinner on the night of check-in through lunch on the day of checkout. (Rates below are per person.)

Private Hotel Room

Ideal for individuals, couples, or friends seeking hotel-style comfort and amenities.

  • King bed or two queen beds
  • Flat-screen TV
  • Refrigerator
  • Private bath
  • Hair dryer
  • Complimentary WiFi
  • Access to the coffee/tea lounge
  • Desk and office chair

Shared Hotel Room (2 People)

Ideal for friends seeking hotel-style comfort and amenities.

  • Twin beds
  • Flat screen TV
  • Refrigerator
  • Private bath
  • Hair dryer
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi
  • Daily delicious vegetarian meals
  • Complimentary tea/coffee & fresh fruit
  • Daily yoga & meditation classes
  • Access to fitness & steam rooms

Private Retreat Room

Ideal for individuals, couples, or friends seeking simple surroundings for peace and clarity.

  • Twin beds
  • Private bath
  • Complimentary WiFi
  • Access to the coffee/tea lounge
  • Desk and office chair

Note Room may contain extra single beds.

 

Premium 1Bedroom Apartment

Fully furnished 665 sq.-ft. apartment (max: 2 persons)

  • 1 queen bed
  • Kitchenette
  • Balcony
  • Washer & dryer
  • Hair dryer
  • Iron & ironing board
  • A desk, chairs, and a nightstand
  • Flat-screen TV with cable
  • Complimentary WiFi
  • Refrigerator, stove range & microwave

Note Furniture may vary; each apartment is different.

 

Premium 1Bedroom Apartment with Loft

Fully furnished 995 sq.-ft. apartment (max: 4 persons)

  • 1 queen bed and 2 twin beds or 1 full bed
  • Kitchenette
  • Balcony
  • Washer & dryer
  • Hair dryer
  • Iron & ironing board
  • A desk, chairs, and a nightstand
  • Flat-screen TV with cable
  • Complimentary WiFi
  • Refrigerator, stove range & microwave

Note Furniture may vary; each apartment is different.

 

Are you ready for a transformational experience?

SAVE! Add a day or two and save 20% off our R&R rates. Select your added day(s) on the Registration page.

June 26-28, 2026
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Upgrade Options

Extend your Stay and Don’t Miss a Thing

Add a day and enjoy R&R activities!

Free activities include
Interactive Nature Hikes
Cooking Demos
Meditation & Movement Classes
Wellness Workshops

Paid activities include
Pottery Classes
Ayurvedic Wellness & Healing Arts Treatments

Nourish Your Body

Take your rejuvenation to another level. Our spa offers treatments and therapies that integrate ancient Ayurveda with contemporary wellness.

Call to check availability during Shankara Ayurveda Spa business hours; seven days a week, 9:00 am–6:00 pm.

Have questions?

We’re here to help.

For room reservations, Ayurveda Wellness Retreats, and Art of Living Retreat Center (AOLRC) signature retreats, we have the following cancellation policy:

  • Refunds are available (less a $50/per person processing fee) up to 15 days before your program or stay.
  • Nonrefundable credit toward a future AOLRC program or stay (less a $50/per person processing fee) is available if you give notice between 14 and one day(s) before your program or stay. Credit may be applied to any AOLRC program or stay for one year following date of issue.
  • No credit or refund is available if you cancel on the arrival day, if you do not show up, or if you leave an event early for any reason. No refund will be available if you attend a program and are dissatisfied with its presentation or content.

AOLRC reserves the right to cancel a program at any time. If AOLRC cancels a program, you will receive a full refund. Some programs may have special cancellation policies; see individual workshop descriptions. For all other retreats, please be sure to check the registration page specific to that retreat.

Unless otherwise indicated, our programs are open to participants 18 years of age and older.

To encourage a healthy environment, we ask that guests not consume alcohol or meat in our public spaces. However, guests may enjoy these items in their rooms.

Our property is always smoke-free.

Yes, we ask that guests with food allergies simply inform us so we can communicate those needs to our chef. Typically, we label potential allergens such as gluten, dairy, and nuts. You may email us at info@artoflivingretreatcenter.org.

Thanks to the cool climate of the Blue Ridge Mountains, air conditioning is rarely needed. For the occasional warm day, there is a fan in each room to help keep you comfortable.

We do have lodging and event venues that are ADA-compliant. Due to the topography of our mountain campus, some are easier to access than others, so please speak to Guest Services (800.392.6870) prior to registering to ensure we can best accommodate your needs. We also have shuttles that run frequently throughout the campus.

We are committed to the safety of our guests and staff. Our mountaintop location and the surrounding areas are spacious, remote, safe, and secure.

  • It is safe to leave your windows open—and necessary for proper airflow!
  • Nature surrounds our campus, and it’s common to see rabbits, deer, gophers, wild turkeys, and other small animals. Please give them space, and they’ll do the same for you. We’ve never had a safety incident with animals on campus.

You can help!

  • If you come across an animal on campus or a trail, give it space, and please do not attempt to pet or feed it.
  • There’s no need to bring valuables to the retreat center; leaving them at home is best.

We are remote—yet easy to get to.

The Art of Living Retreat Center offers the right balance between serenity and easy access.
  • Fly into Charlotte, NC—Two hours away by drive.
  • Check-in at 4:00 pm first day—eat dinner shortly after that.
  • Leave after lunch the last day—schedule your flight anytime
    after 5:00 pm.

Transportation Options Between Charlotte and the Center

Hickory Hop Shuttle Service  Book online  hickoryhop.com  The Hickory Hop shuttle goes from Charlotte airport to Boone five times daily. Reservations are required, so book ahead online and be sure to confirm shuttle times coordinate with your travel plans.

High Country Limo  828.898.9595   highcountrylimo.com

Oscar’s Car Service  704.965.5800

Edwardo’s Car Service  704.949.6775

Blue Bird Transportation  828.989.7286   Blue Bird of Boone

Uber or Lyft  Book in app on arrival.

Other airports within driving distance from the Art of Living Retreat Center include

Tri-Cities Regional Airport (TRI) in Johnson City, TN (80 miles)
Piedmont Triad International Airport (GSO) in Greensboro, NC (110 miles)

Visit our directions page for more information.

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June 26-28, 2026
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SAVE! Add a day or two and save 20% off our R&R rates. Select your added day(s) on the Registration page.