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INELDA End-of-Life Doula Training

Shelby Kirillin & Neiasha Russell

Build the Confidence to Be Present

When someone is facing the end of life, knowing how to truly support them—and the people who love them—can feel daunting. In this immersive five-day training with experienced INELDA educators Shelby Kirillin and Neiasha Russell, you’ll develop the knowledge, self-awareness, and practical skills to step into those moments with greater confidence and compassion. Grounded in the INELDA Doula Approach, you’ll learn to listen deeply, honor each person’s autonomy, understand the dying process, and provide individualized, nonmedical support to people and their circles of care. Whether this work is a personal calling or part of your professional path, you’ll leave with a grounded foundation for accompanying others through one of life’s most profound transitions.

Certificate of Completion: Awarded upon completion of the training.

Nursing Contact Hours: Available through INELDA, which independently offers CE credits.

March 31–April 4
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Starting at $875 (Tuition) + $1285 (Lodging + Meals) plus tax

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Retreat Benefits

Confident Presence

Develop the awareness and practical skills to support dying people and their circles of care with compassion, confidence, and respect.

Deep Listening

Strengthen the listening skills at the heart of doula care and learn to meet each person’s experience without imposing your own.

Informed Support

Understand possible dying trajectories, physical signs and symptoms, and the many ways end-of-life doulas can provide meaningful nonmedical care.

Honored Autonomy

Learn to support self-determination and respect the individual needs, choices, values, and wishes of each person and circle of care.

Cultural Awareness

Explore perspectives around death and dying while developing greater awareness of the beliefs, traditions, and experiences others may bring to end of life.

Grief Literacy

Build a foundational understanding of grief and strengthen your ability to be present with loss as part of end-of-life support.

What to Expect

Learn to Meet the Moment

Becoming an end-of-life doula involves more than learning what to do. It asks you to become more aware of how you listen, respond, and show up. Throughout five immersive days, you’ll examine your own relationship with mortality while building practical skills through live teaching, reflection, role play, partner work, and small-group exercises. You’ll explore the individuality of dying, practice supporting autonomy, deepen your understanding of grief, and experience different ways doula care can respond to the needs of a person and their circle of care. Daily centering practices create space to absorb and integrate the work, helping you develop a grounded, compassionate presence you can carry into your community.

1. Guided Centering

Begin each day with techniques designed to cultivate presence and prepare you for the learning and experiential work ahead.

2. Doula Skill-Building

Build practical skills through guided role play, paired exercises, and small-group scenarios that bring INELDA’s approach to life.

3. Listening Practice

Develop the deep, receptive listening skills that form the backdrop of INELDA’s approach to supporting dying people and their circles of care.

4. Mortality Reflection

Explore your own feelings and perspectives around death and dying to cultivate greater self-awareness in your role as a doula.

5. Cultural Perspectives

Explore diverse beliefs, values, and experiences surrounding death while strengthening your capacity to honor each person’s individual perspective.

Disclaimer: Information shared during this retreat is offered for educational purposes only. The views, opinions, teachings, recommendations, and methodologies expressed by guest presenters are solely their own, do not constitute medical advice, and do not necessarily reflect those of the Art of Living Retreat Center. Please consult your physician or qualified healthcare provider regarding medical concerns or before making changes to your health routine.

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March 31–April 4, 2027
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Program Schedule

This experiential retreat offers a well-balanced schedule that combines structured educational sessions with flexible time blocks – ensuring you have ample opportunity to engage in learning while also allowing personal time to explore the retreat center, participate in activities, and enjoy moments of reflection and relaxation.

Check-in Begins 4:00 pm

Dinner 6:00–7:00 pm

Orientation 7:00–7:20 pm

Session 1 7:30–9:30 pm

Breakfast 7:30–9:30 am

Session 2 9:30 am–12:30 pm

Lunch 12:30–1:30 pm

Session 3 2:00–4:00 pm

Free Time 4:00–6:00 pm

Dinner 6:00–7:30 pm

Session 4 7:30–9:30 pm

Breakfast 7:30–9:30 am

Session 5 9:30 am–12:30 pm

Lunch 12:30–1:30 pm

Session 6 2:00–4:00 pm

Free Time 4:00–6:00 pm

Dinner 6:00–7:30 pm

Session 7 7:30–9:30 pm

Breakfast 7:30–9:30 am

Session 8 9:30 am–12:30 pm

Lunch 12:30–1:30 pm

Session 9 2:00–4:00 pm

Free Time 4:00–6:00 pm

Dinner 6:00–7:30 pm

Breakfast 7:30–9:30 am

Session 10 9:30 am–12:30 pm

*Room Checkout* 11:00 am; luggage may be held at Reception.

Lunch 12:30–1:30 pm

Breakfast  7:30–9:30 am • Lunch: 12:00–1:30 pm • Dinner: 6:00–7:30 pm

Optional activities include
Yoga • Meditation • Kirtan • Bonfire • Labyrinth • Nature Trails

Program FAQs

There are no prerequisites to taking the course. However, the first part of the course involves watching four hours of video instruction and doing a series of activities. It will take you ten to twelve hours to complete all of the prework. You will receive access to the prework two weeks before the first day of training.

This course touches on some intense experiences and requires an emotional openness and vulnerability when you engage in the exercises. If you feel emotionally fragile now, this probably isn’t the best time to take the course. But only you can judge whether or not you can regulate your emotions enough to explore what it means to die and how we move through the process of dying. If you have any doubts you can do this, then wait until your inner life is more settled to take the training.

This has been the most amazing experience & I am forever grateful I found INELDA! Thank you!

—Amber Esposito (Past Participant)

All of the INELDA trainers and staff have been highly skilled, warmly compassionate and capable speakers. I am very impressed by the content, presentation and caliber of the training methods and materials. As I now move forward with my practice as an EOL Doula, I am proud to be associated with INELDA.

—Maureen Hoffmann (Past Participant)

Whether you hope to become a doula or are interested in educating yourself about death and dying for yourself and your loved ones, I can't imagine a more effective, powerful, and very human training.

—Dorian Solot (Past Participant)

Meet the Presenter

Shelby Kirillin

Shelby Kirillin brings a wealth of expertise and compassion to her work, drawing from over 20 years as a neurotrauma nurse in intensive care. As a certified end-of-life (EOL) doula and seasoned educator with INELDA since 2017, Shelby combines deep clinical knowledge with a heartfelt commitment to supporting individuals and families through life’s most profound transitions.

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Meet the Presenter

Neiasha Russell

Neiasha Russell is a certified grief counselor and a certified child and adolescent grief counselor. She brings her deep insight and compassionate perspective to various platforms, engaging audiences in meaningful conversations around death, dying, and grief. Neiasha is also the founder and executive director of Harriett’s Daughters®, Inc., which provides support for girls affected by maternal cancer loss.

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Our Accommodations

Prices include daily vegetarian meals from dinner on the night of check-in through lunch on the day of checkout. (Rates below are per person.)

Private Hotel Room

Ideal for individuals, couples, or friends seeking hotel-style comfort and amenities.

  • King bed or two queen beds
  • Flat-screen TV
  • Refrigerator
  • Private bath
  • Hair dryer
  • Complimentary WiFi
  • Access to the coffee/tea lounge
  • Desk and office chair

Shared Hotel Room (2 People)

Ideal for friends seeking hotel-style comfort and amenities.

  • Twin beds
  • Flat screen TV
  • Refrigerator
  • Private bath
  • Hair dryer
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi
  • Daily delicious vegetarian meals
  • Complimentary tea/coffee & fresh fruit
  • Daily yoga & meditation classes
  • Access to fitness & steam rooms

Private Retreat Room

Ideal for individuals, couples, or friends seeking simple surroundings for peace and clarity.

  • Twin beds
  • Private bath
  • Complimentary WiFi
  • Access to the coffee/tea lounge
  • Desk and office chair

Note Room may contain extra single beds.

 

Premium 1Bedroom Apartment

Fully furnished 665 sq.-ft. apartment (max: 2 persons)

  • 1 queen bed
  • Kitchenette
  • Balcony
  • Washer & dryer
  • Hair dryer
  • Iron & ironing board
  • A desk, chairs, and a nightstand
  • Flat-screen TV with cable
  • Complimentary WiFi
  • Refrigerator, stove range & microwave

Note Furniture may vary; each apartment is different.

 

Premium 1Bedroom Apartment with Loft

Fully furnished 995 sq.-ft. apartment (max: 4 persons)

  • 1 queen bed and 2 twin beds or 1 full bed
  • Kitchenette
  • Balcony
  • Washer & dryer
  • Hair dryer
  • Iron & ironing board
  • A desk, chairs, and a nightstand
  • Flat-screen TV with cable
  • Complimentary WiFi
  • Refrigerator, stove range & microwave

Note Furniture may vary; each apartment is different.

 

Upgrade Options

Extend your Stay and Don’t Miss a Thing

Add a day and enjoy R&R activities!

Free activities include
Interactive Nature Hikes
Cooking Demos
Meditation & Movement Classes
Wellness Workshops

Paid activities include
Pottery Classes
Ayurvedic Wellness & Healing Arts Treatments

Nourish Your Body

Take your rejuvenation to another level. Our spa offers treatments and therapies that integrate ancient Ayurveda with contemporary wellness.

Call to check availability during Shankara Ayurveda Spa business hours; seven days a week, 9:00 am–6:00 pm.

Have questions?

We’re here to help.

For room reservations, Ayurveda Wellness Retreats, and Art of Living Retreat Center (AOLRC) signature retreats, we have the following cancellation policy:

  • Refunds are available (less a $50/per person processing fee) up to 15 days before your program or stay.
  • Nonrefundable credit toward a future AOLRC program or stay (less a $50/per person processing fee) is available if you give notice between 14 and one day(s) before your program or stay. Credit may be applied to any AOLRC program or stay for one year following date of issue.
  • No credit or refund is available if you cancel on the arrival day, if you do not show up, or if you leave an event early for any reason. No refund will be available if you attend a program and are dissatisfied with its presentation or content.

AOLRC reserves the right to cancel a program at any time. If AOLRC cancels a program, you will receive a full refund. Some programs may have special cancellation policies; see individual workshop descriptions. For all other retreats, please be sure to check the registration page specific to that retreat.

Unless otherwise indicated, our programs are open to participants 18 years of age and older.

To encourage a healthy environment, we ask that guests not consume alcohol or meat in our public spaces. However, guests may enjoy these items in their rooms.

Our property is always smoke-free.

Yes, we ask that guests with food allergies simply inform us so we can communicate those needs to our chef. Typically, we label potential allergens such as gluten, dairy, and nuts. You may email us at info@theartoflivingretreatcenter.kinsta.cloud.

Thanks to the cool climate of the Blue Ridge Mountains, air conditioning is rarely needed. For the occasional warm day, there is a fan in each room to help keep you comfortable.

We do have lodging and event venues that are ADA-compliant. Due to the topography of our mountain campus, some are easier to access than others, so please speak to Guest Services (800.392.6870) prior to registering to ensure we can best accommodate your needs. We also have shuttles that run frequently throughout the campus.

We are committed to the safety of our guests and staff. Our mountaintop location and the surrounding areas are spacious, remote, safe, and secure.

  • It is safe to leave your windows open—and necessary for proper airflow!
  • Nature surrounds our campus, and it’s common to see rabbits, deer, gophers, wild turkeys, and other small animals. Please give them space, and they’ll do the same for you. We’ve never had a safety incident with animals on campus.

You can help!

  • If you come across an animal on campus or a trail, give it space, and please do not attempt to pet or feed it.
  • There’s no need to bring valuables to the retreat center; leaving them at home is best.

We are remote—yet easy to get to.

The Art of Living Retreat Center offers the right balance between serenity and easy access.
  • Fly into Charlotte, NC—Two hours away by drive.
  • Check-in at 4:00 pm first day—eat dinner shortly after that.
  • Leave after lunch the last day—schedule your flight anytime
    after 5:00 pm.

Transportation Options Between Charlotte and the Center

Hickory Hop Shuttle Service  Book online  hickoryhop.com  The Hickory Hop shuttle goes from Charlotte airport to Boone five times daily. Reservations are required, so book ahead online and be sure to confirm shuttle times coordinate with your travel plans.

High Country Limo  828.898.9595   highcountrylimo.com

Oscar’s Car Service  704.965.5800

Edwardo’s Car Service  704.949.6775

Blue Bird Transportation  828.989.7286   Blue Bird of Boone

Uber or Lyft  Book in app on arrival.

Other airports within driving distance from the Art of Living Retreat Center include

Tri-Cities Regional Airport (TRI) in Johnson City, TN (80 miles)
Piedmont Triad International Airport (GSO) in Greensboro, NC (110 miles)

Visit our directions page for more information.

Reserve Your Spot Now

March 31–April 4, 2027
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SAVE! Add a day or two and save 20% off our R&R rates. Select your added day(s) on the Registration page.