Confident Presence
Develop the awareness and practical skills to support dying people and their circles of care with compassion, confidence, and respect.
When someone is facing the end of life, knowing how to truly support them—and the people who love them—can feel daunting. In this immersive five-day training with experienced INELDA educators Shelby Kirillin and Neiasha Russell, you’ll develop the knowledge, self-awareness, and practical skills to step into those moments with greater confidence and compassion. Grounded in the INELDA Doula Approach, you’ll learn to listen deeply, honor each person’s autonomy, understand the dying process, and provide individualized, nonmedical support to people and their circles of care. Whether this work is a personal calling or part of your professional path, you’ll leave with a grounded foundation for accompanying others through one of life’s most profound transitions.
Certificate of Completion: Awarded upon completion of the training.
Nursing Contact Hours: Available through INELDA, which independently offers CE credits.
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Confident Presence
Develop the awareness and practical skills to support dying people and their circles of care with compassion, confidence, and respect.
Deep Listening
Strengthen the listening skills at the heart of doula care and learn to meet each person’s experience without imposing your own.
Informed Support
Understand possible dying trajectories, physical signs and symptoms, and the many ways end-of-life doulas can provide meaningful nonmedical care.
Honored Autonomy
Learn to support self-determination and respect the individual needs, choices, values, and wishes of each person and circle of care.
Cultural Awareness
Explore perspectives around death and dying while developing greater awareness of the beliefs, traditions, and experiences others may bring to end of life.
Grief Literacy
Build a foundational understanding of grief and strengthen your ability to be present with loss as part of end-of-life support.
Becoming an end-of-life doula involves more than learning what to do. It asks you to become more aware of how you listen, respond, and show up. Throughout five immersive days, you’ll examine your own relationship with mortality while building practical skills through live teaching, reflection, role play, partner work, and small-group exercises. You’ll explore the individuality of dying, practice supporting autonomy, deepen your understanding of grief, and experience different ways doula care can respond to the needs of a person and their circle of care. Daily centering practices create space to absorb and integrate the work, helping you develop a grounded, compassionate presence you can carry into your community.
Begin each day with techniques designed to cultivate presence and prepare you for the learning and experiential work ahead.
Build practical skills through guided role play, paired exercises, and small-group scenarios that bring INELDA’s approach to life.
Develop the deep, receptive listening skills that form the backdrop of INELDA’s approach to supporting dying people and their circles of care.
Explore your own feelings and perspectives around death and dying to cultivate greater self-awareness in your role as a doula.
Explore diverse beliefs, values, and experiences surrounding death while strengthening your capacity to honor each person’s individual perspective.
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This experiential retreat offers a well-balanced schedule that combines structured educational sessions with flexible time blocks – ensuring you have ample opportunity to engage in learning while also allowing personal time to explore the retreat center, participate in activities, and enjoy moments of reflection and relaxation.
There are no prerequisites to taking the course. However, the first part of the course involves watching four hours of video instruction and doing a series of activities. It will take you ten to twelve hours to complete all of the prework. You will receive access to the prework two weeks before the first day of training.
This course touches on some intense experiences and requires an emotional openness and vulnerability when you engage in the exercises. If you feel emotionally fragile now, this probably isn’t the best time to take the course. But only you can judge whether or not you can regulate your emotions enough to explore what it means to die and how we move through the process of dying. If you have any doubts you can do this, then wait until your inner life is more settled to take the training.
Shelby Kirillin brings a wealth of expertise and compassion to her work, drawing from over 20 years as a neurotrauma nurse in intensive care. As a certified end-of-life (EOL) doula and seasoned educator with INELDA since 2017, Shelby combines deep clinical knowledge with a heartfelt commitment to supporting individuals and families through life’s most profound transitions.
Neiasha Russell is a certified grief counselor and a certified child and adolescent grief counselor. She brings her deep insight and compassionate perspective to various platforms, engaging audiences in meaningful conversations around death, dying, and grief. Neiasha is also the founder and executive director of Harriett’s Daughters®, Inc., which provides support for girls affected by maternal cancer loss.
Free activities include
Interactive Nature Hikes
Cooking Demos
Meditation & Movement Classes
Wellness Workshops
Paid activities include
Pottery Classes
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For room reservations, Ayurveda Wellness Retreats, and Art of Living Retreat Center (AOLRC) signature retreats, we have the following cancellation policy:
AOLRC reserves the right to cancel a program at any time. If AOLRC cancels a program, you will receive a full refund. Some programs may have special cancellation policies; see individual workshop descriptions. For all other retreats, please be sure to check the registration page specific to that retreat.
Unless otherwise indicated, our programs are open to participants 18 years of age and older.
To encourage a healthy environment, we ask that guests not consume alcohol or meat in our public spaces. However, guests may enjoy these items in their rooms.
Our property is always smoke-free.
Yes, we ask that guests with food allergies simply inform us so we can communicate those needs to our chef. Typically, we label potential allergens such as gluten, dairy, and nuts. You may email us at info@theartoflivingretreatcenter.kinsta.cloud.
Thanks to the cool climate of the Blue Ridge Mountains, air conditioning is rarely needed. For the occasional warm day, there is a fan in each room to help keep you comfortable.
We do have lodging and event venues that are ADA-compliant. Due to the topography of our mountain campus, some are easier to access than others, so please speak to Guest Services (800.392.6870) prior to registering to ensure we can best accommodate your needs. We also have shuttles that run frequently throughout the campus.
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